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How to Avoid Sabotaging Your Selling Efforts

by Jim Domanski

Selling is tough enough as it is so why engage in self destructive behaviors that mare your chances of making a sale?

Let's face it, sometimes we are our own worst enemies. I am specifically referring to words and phrases that we use, either on a conscious or subconscious level, that maim and sabotage our selling efforts.

We'll look at five different behaviors that plague certain reps and we'll look at how to manage and eliminate them.

The Doubting Thomas

The first behavior is that of the Doubting Thomas. Thomas is a sales rep who earnestly creates doubt in the client's mind about buying your products or services. In effect, he creates a self fulfilling prophecy. Here are some recent examples I encountered not long ago:

"Mr. Satcher, you probably wouldn't be interested in the BD syringe offer right now, would you?"
"Beth, your pharmacy doesn't use lancets, right?"
"Here the insurances we DON'T cover..."
In these examples, the sales rep has entered into the conversation with a negative perspective. I suspect that many reps do this because they are subconsciously ‘pre-empting' a rejection. Somehow they feel that this makes the rejection a little bit easier to take. But look at it from the client's perspective. He hears someone full of doubt and uncertainty; someone who lacks confidence. Buying from a Doubting Thomas is difficult.

Discouraging Dave

Discouraging Dave is the sales rep that discourages a further relationship with the client with phrases like:

"We can't do that..."
"We won't deliver overnight..."
"There is no way we can access those quantities..."
"I doubt if we have the capacity to implement that project..."
There's a lot of Discouraging Dave's out there. Essentially, they've given up trying to sell. Instead, they tell clients what can't be done rather than what can be done. Needless to say, the prospect takes the business elsewhere.

Sarcastic Sally

Far worse than Thomas or Dave, is Sarcastic Sally.

The sarcastic sales rep is usually bitter that the client has not taken her up on an offer. Sally is often frustrated and burned out with her sales results and will often fire off a verbal volley or two designed to "put the client in his place." Last week, I heard a Sarcastic Sally say this:

"Okay, if YOU don't want to save money, that's fine by ME."
The dripping sarcasm may have made the sales rep feel deliciously good for a moment or two, but I guarantee you that the prospect will never, ever forget the moment. And I guarantee you that the prospect will never, ever buy from that rep.

Slandering Sam
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prefer to hurl abuse and perhaps even slander at a competitor rather than take the high road to selling. Here are few real life examples:

"I will tell honestly, Bob, you can't trust (ABC) Company. Boy, have I heard stories on how they lied to their clients..."
"Watch out for (XYZ) Inc. They're sleaze balls. They're really good at baiting and switching..."
Slandering Sam will tell you that he means well when he makes these comments. He wants to let the prospect know there is a ‘grave' danger in dealing with certain competitors. Unfortunately, to most prospects, it sounds like sour grapes and mud slinging. It doesn't sound professional whether it is true or not. Clients don't like to hear your laments. They don't find cheesy cheap shots endearing. What they do want is for you to sell them on the merits of your product or service, not on the deficiencies of your competitor. (There are ways to point out competitive disadvantages but bad mouthing is not one of them.)

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Part 2 : Suicidial Sally and  Fixing the Problem